First offense misdemeanor possession in Baton Rouge, La.. HELP...?

Unfortunately, there's nothing you can do. I've been smokin marijuana once in a while since I was 15 and now I am 29, never been caught for doing drugs. It is all about how smart you are handling it and how responsible you are, to avoid any conflicts. Smoking at home before the movies would be the best choice. I am sorry that your boyfriend is an idiot and has screwed you up. It will stay on your record. You just got to accept it and face it. Most likely, you will be fine. When marijuana legalization occurs, it will be off ur record so... It may affect ur jobs and such but you could always ask ur lawyer to ask the judge to reduce it to disorderly conduct instead and be on a probation, serve community service and not to have it on ur record to give u a break. You'll need a new boyfriend lol.